Submission is not negative.
It has nothing to do with ceding control or relinquishing your influence.
Oppression has no place in submission.
It is not feeble.
Oppression has no place in submission.
It is not feeble.
The ability to submit is not limited to women or people who possess a strong feminine spirit.
Furthermore, it’s not (just) about sex.
There is no way to learn it. When a woman or man chooses to submit, there is a beauty that emanates from their inner spirit. It dismantles the barriers they have accumulated throughout their lives, letting the sensual, lovely energy shine through.
The key to submission is sensuality. It has to do with vulnerability, communication, trust, compassion, and honesty. Submission is not so much about giving in to another person as it is about accepting who you are and what you want. It is about giving up to yourself.
It’s an option.
Making the decision to submit does not imply that you are a submissive in and of itself. Primarily, being a submissive is an attitude. In some circumstances, giving in is a decision. The strongest, most manly dude can consciously choose to submit. A person who is subservient is not weak. They have a strong sense of self-awareness and self-worth. They never give in out of helplessness or despair. They yield out of courage, affection, and faith.
If submission is made voluntarily, it is freedom. Knowing that their partner is there to catch them if they stumble allows one to let go of themselves. It’s about striving to be the finest version of oneself—as a person in general and not just during times of surrender. Understanding that you have something to offer and that you can control your own will to give it up the way it is desired rather than the way you believe it should be desired can lead to submission and ultimately, power.
It can arouse pride—but not the phony pride of an exaggerated ego, but the real pride that springs from understanding your own depths, much like humility. Furthermore, any personal connection in which submission is a factor is made deeper by its depth.
Because there can never be continual control or power in a good partnership. The two partners are distinct yet equal. Yin energy may nourish Yang energy in a relationship, which is one of its most lovely aspects. Moreover, Yin energy can be fully illuminated by Yang energy.
Until the Yang energy manifests itself authentically and is prepared and eager to defend and assist, both in our personal lives and in interpersonal interactions, the Yin energy can never be fully free. The two energies must nourish one another.
The concept behind submitting to Yang energy is to fear it no longer, but to trust it and let it guard you, and to allow it have its own place in your life.
Giving up entails submitting. Additionally, you have to have faith that the Yang energy within you or in another person will take care of you when you need it. It’s about releasing yourself from your fears and allowing it in.
It is important to remember that a submissive woman is incapable of being an independent warrior. She has battled and endures to tell the stories of the wounds that adorn her own being.
Never assume that a man who submits is a doormat, a softie, or someone who has been pussy-whipped.
Because of his deep masculine strength, he feels secure enough to let go of control and let life pass through him.
Their obedience originates from the core of their inherent power, not from a place of weakness. As a partner, what they have to offer is worth immeasurable wealth. Their hearts are what they yield.
Every dynamic and passionate conversation has lessons to be learned if one has eyes, ears, and hearts open.
Sacred. We need to set the wheel in motion towards everything that is sacred. Metamorphosis. Metamorphose.
The sacred masculine. The sacred feminine. The sacred bond.
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